So as some of you may already know, we're moving again. I should be packing boxes as we speak, but I've recently learned how to become a pro at procrastinating. On Monday we'll be in our vehicles, driving West to Wrightwood, California-- a tiny little town outside of LA up in the mountains. It seems like just a few months ago we were packed up in our pickup truck and basking in the excitement of driving from Arizona out to North Carolina. Now we've found ourselves with this season in our lives done, and this move ending up being the hardest for both of us. Alaska was expected, Oregon was bittersweet, Arizona had it's time, but North Carolina feels like it's going to be one of those heartwrenching goodbyes. Not just because of the scenery and culture, but the leaving two of our closest friends with the knowledge that a year like this may not happen again. Even though it was hard, exhausting, stressful, and full of 50+ hours of, it was really good.
So instead of facing reality and getting my shit done, I've been reminiscing as I slowly put my things into their appropriate cardboard boxes. Going through my bookcase, I came across all my old books that I've inherited from family. A lot of these were in the centerpieces of our wedding. I'm aware that I'm way too sentimental about useless objects, but the fact that these books have been in so many hands, then at that big log cabin lodge on our wedding day, and then are traveling along with us, is something that I find so romantic and absolutely love. This book is one of my favorites and is fraying and coming apart at the binding. It's called Love Songs of Childhood. How awesome is that?! Some things my husband may talk me into getting rid of (old gamecube system... I mean come on! I totally would have played Zelda again. One of these days.), but these books are never leaving. I hate packing and moving, hate it, and feel silly for having so many things, but some of them are just worth it to me. He should just be glad I don't have huge ass furniture I insist on lugging around everywhere. Just a couple oversized most-comforatable-on-earth couches my parents gave us... and an antique table that my Grandma grew up eating at... and two 20 pound night stands that we bought for our Alaskan lodge years ago... and a few other odds and ends. Not bad if you ask me.
Anyone have any tips for cross country moves? Like how to knock out a hyperactive 10 month old puppy with effective drugs? How to make the hours pass quickly in a pickup truck cab with said hyperactive puppy, one boy, and one girl... towing one Jetta? Anything special to see on the way to California taking the Northern route? How to make 2,447 miles seems like a skip and a jump instead of never-ending road to no mans land? To a town so small they don't even offer regular internet?! I have no idea what I'm moving to. It's all about the adventures though, right?
I'll be tweeting, picture snapping, and intermittently blogging our adventure. If you want to know if I'm surviving, send me periodic messages of moral support, or just want to laugh at our misfortune of having to drive 10 hour days with a puppy in our lap, make sure to follow me on Twitter. I have to have somewhere to vent.
Wish us luck!!!









13 comments:
Good luck! We're planning a similarly large move ourselves in a few months, but I can't blog about it yet until I let my work know. I'll definitely be looking forward to reading about your moving adventures, since we will be traveling with 3 cats and a gecko on our trip.
Wow - your trip looks a lot like ours! We recently moved to Cali (outside LA as well!) from Maine/Massachusetts and took a similar route once we got far enough south.
The only advice I would give is to definitely stop at National Parks! There are too many amazing ones to miss them! You should take a look at our map and route - maybe it will give you some ideas! :) You can see it here: http://kindlingforhim.blogspot.com/2010/08/arrival.html
Yes ... good luck! Food, for me, always makes anything seem more pleasant! So be sure to pack that too :) You could take a detour up through Montana to Alberta, Canada (!) ... hear those Rocky Mtns are beautiful this time of year lol That would be funny ... blogger girl meeting other blogger girl!
p.s. I'm just as big of a procrastinator .. I still haven't UNpacked allot of my stuff from last month's move :(
AHHH!! SO EXCITING!!! you guys are in my prayers
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um....did i miss something? why are you guys moving? its great news though---but i understand...totally overwhelming starting all over again. tips for the dog...give him benadryl. i agree about the national parks...do you have a time frame?
YAY!
OK, I just made this trip. (and it was my sixth time driving across country. I have taken various routes, including route 70 through CO) Unless you are visiting family in CO, I recommend a straight shot on route 40. Just get on 40 west in Asheville and follow it all the way to Barstow in CA. It's a bit boring, but fast. Also, there are fewer winter weather concerns.
I had my border collie on doggie downers. They're super cheap. Just call your vet. I think I paid $11 for a three day supply.
To make the time pass, I downloaded a bunch of podcasts and audiobooks. Audible has a free trial you can check out. If you have an iPhone, you can stream WCQS in any major city. I liked feeling connected to a familiar place when I was on the road.
Also check out the Urban Spoon ap to find decent local fare in some of the bigger cities.
Lastly, if you are staying in a hotel with your puppy, ask to see the room before paying. I stayed in a nasty "pet-friendy" room at the Days Inn in Needles. The thing was horrible. It wasn't set up for pets, it was just the designated shitter. The carpet was soaked with urine and other pet stains. I had to give Maggie a nighttime doggie downer because she was so upset by all the nasty smells. I got about 3 hours of sleep before hitting the road again. Good luck!
P.S. I didn't think I would, but I miss Asheville dearly. What an amazing city!
Good luck lady! I can't say I envy you, but another awesome adventure is waiting at the end of the road, so it'll all be worth it. We'll be moving this year some time and I'm already dreading the stress...and that's just to another part of our town!!
Make the journey part of the fun and it'll whizz by. Well, here's hoping! Lots of love and have a safe journey xx
WE GOT THE HOUSE PACKED!! Hell yes. Thanks for the encouragement everyone, and the advice :) We're stopping in Denver to pick up a boat that we've inherited (awesome!), so we do have to go the northern route... but that also means we get to go through southern utah. I would DIE to go back to Zion. We'll see.......
See you on the other side!
Can't wait to see how your trip unfolds. Truth be told, I'm just a little envious of this adventure you're one :-} Love you!
if you need a place to stay in tulsa, let us know! my sister might let you crash on her floor!
Good luck with the move! I will follow you on twitter ASAP.
Any time my mom or sisters start talking about cleaning out and giving away some books, I almost have a panic attack. I can never give those away!
Definitely use Benadryl to "knock out" Tucker! It is absolutely safe (and we got approval from the vet). Tucker looks big enough that he can have a whole one (25mg), but if you're unsure, break it in half, and that's totally fine too. Happy t(r)ails!
newest follower says good luck! I'm making a move as well very soon and I know all the overwhelming feelings you're experiencing! It'll be okay. You're right it is about adventure!
-Chymere H.
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